Dear Love Doctor,
I met this really cool guy a week ago. We really hit it off. It was like we had known each other forever, we had so much in common.
But, he hasn't called me once all week. I know I didn't do anything wrong, and he promised to call and we would get together this weekend.
I've been looking forward to hearing from him ever since we parted.
I'd call him, but I don't know his number. Would it be really rude to just go over to his place and knock on the door?
Signed,
Anxious
Dear Anxious,
There is nothing like young love! Or at least lust.
It is possible that he lost your number and is just dying to hear from you. But, really, just popping up from out of nowhere is a definite no no!
On the other hand, it's possible he's forgotten all about you.
What we say in the heat of lust may be far from the reality we feel after we have straightened up the sheets. I know this may not be what you want to hear, but, he may have been caught up in the moment, and when the moment ends life goes on.
Yes, there is only one way to know for sure. Send him a little note. Something on a cute little card. Just say, "thinking about you....when you have a moment give me call." Sign your name and be sure you put down your phone number. Since you know where he lives just address the envelope and pop it in the mail. Don't drop it off at his door, though. He may think you are stalking him and scare him off.
If he calls, Great. If he doesn't, you've given him a chance and move on.
The Love Doctor
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