Dear Love Doctor,
My boyfriend has gone crazy. Last Christmas a friend gave us a camera
for our computer. It was a wonderful thought. My parents live halfway
across the country, and we have used it to keep in touch with them.
They went out and got a camera of their own, and now we can see each
other as we chat.
But, now, I'm beginning to think the whole thing may have been a
mistake. A couple of days ago, I came home to find Buddy naked, in
front of the camera, showing off with someone he had met on the web.
I wasn't overly upset that he was showing off, we have a pretty open relationship. But, Doc, on the web?
We talked about it later and he said he really gets turned on being
watched. Now, he wants us to have sex together on the web and maybe set
up a website.
Buddy is really good-looking. He's 26, tall dark and muscular. But,
this camera thing is beginning to freak me out. He is spending all of
his time naked in front of it. A lot of the time he is just taking
still pictures of himself and saving them on our computer.
He says he wants me to use it like a still camera and tell him what to do. He says it's a major turn on.
I think I've got to put the brakes on this thing, is it normal for a guy to want to be seen naked by all sorts of people?
Signed,
Shutter-Bugged
Dear Bugged,
He's turned into an exhibitionist! And, he's not alone. The web has spawned millions of guys just like him.
One thing you did not say in your letter is how you feel about taking
private pictures of him, just for yourselves. Believe me, it can be
it's own turn on.
I know someone who had a boyfriend once who was just like Buddy. He had
a Polaroid camera and he just loved having his picture taken. What his
partner discovered was that he loved taking the shots as much as he
loved modeling for him.
They had incredible sex afterwards. (or so they said...)
As for the website, well, you probably made the right decision. There
is a lot of money to be made from these home porno sites, but, the
downside is that you can be seen by anyone and everyone. Sometimes
those pictures can come back and bite you on the ass.
Have fun with your cam, and don't read too much into his behavior, unless he starts running around the streets naked.
The Love Doctor
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