The Love Doctor

Dear Love Doctor,

How much sex is normal? Also, do you really look like your picture?

Signed,

Below Minimum

Dear Below,

Hmmm... sex... normal... well, first I will give you my opinion on 'sex-tistics': These are based on surveys and questionnaires and live interviews. I assume that you are speaking about "frequency". Inherently people will exaggerate the amount of sex that they have - they never want to seem to not be having enough of it.

Truth be told, there is no 'normal' so to speak - whether you have sex once a day (I wish!) or once a month, 'normal' is what you do! So if you and your partner are OK with the amount of sex you have -- and you HAVE to talk about the frequency with them - then THAT is normal. Don't worry about keeping up with the Jones' they are probably inflating the frequency. No worries. (Unless of course your partner is a 'hamster!)

As far as whether I look like my picture - in a word, yes! That's me!

The Love Doctor