The Love Doctor

Dear Love Doctor,

I recently found porn pictures saved on my fiance's computer, I was upset not so much that he was looking at the pictures, but more so that he had them saved, especially because I thought he always made himself out to be so divine and different from other men, he loaths other men that behave direspectful to women. I called him a liar and a hypocrite for having those pictures, I said he was acting like the men he loaths. We've since then dealt with the issue and he no longer has the pictures. I just recently came from a pleasure party at a girlfriends house and purchased a vibrator, out of curiosity, not because I'm unhappy or unsatisfied. I've never owned one before, this is my first time. I also bought a couple things for him and I to enjoy together. My fiance found out about my toy and is upset. I told him he is insecure, he says I'm a hypocrite. I think there's a big difference from his saved porn pictures that he lied about from my toy that I never lied to him about. Is he just being insecure? or am I a hypocrite?

Signed,

Am I really?

Dear Hippo,

Yes. Yes you are. No seriously, Men are visual creatures when it comes to sexual arousal. Ask your husband to download the pictures again, look at them before, or even during your next love making session and suprise him with the vibrator! Be forwarned, though! Make sure that he doesn't fall in love with it or he may just give up the pictures and spend more alone time with 'Your' new best friend!

The Love Doctor

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