The Love Doctor

Dear Love Doctor,

I'm a 47 year old man and I've met this great guy. We met at the club where he works. The two of us have been spending a lot of time together and it is turning into a real summer- fall summer relationship.

The trouble is though, I really don't like the type of work he does. Bart is a dancer at a strip club. I want him to quit and move in with me, but he says the money is too good to give up.

I keep telling him I have all the money we need, but he still wants to work there.

Some of my friends say Bart is just using me. It's true I have given him some gifts and taken him on a vacation but, I really do think he likes me for me.

Last week he said he didn't want me hanging around the club. He said it's bad for businesses. But, I try to make up for that by getting table dances from him.

Is there any way that I can convince him to stop working there?


Signed,

Daddy


Dear Daddy,

There are four sexes my friend, homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, and pansexual. You have found the latter.

Do yourself a favor. Have one last table dance for the road and don't look back as you leave that club.

This guy is playing you like a fine violin and the symphony won't end until you are in the poor house.

There is nothing wrong with older men and younger men in relationships. In fact, I think it's kind of neat, especially at my age. But, a relationship with a stripper is no relationship.

There are plenty of young men out there looking for the stability a relationship with a mature man can offer. Young men with careers who can bring something other than their body into a relationship.

We all want to love and be loved, but this situation is going to give you neither. What it will give you is plenty of bills and a lot of heartache. He has already gotten gifts and a trip from you. What have you gotten besides some sex?

No, friend, hit the clubs where guys your age hang out, and I'm sure you will find a younger guy there just waiting for you.

The Love Doctor

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